When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„For the first time, it was at the beginning of my relationship with my ex-husband. In one cheerful moment, we´ve entered a sex-shop. It was both funny and exciting. “

What did you try?

„Small pink and curved vibrator was my first and we´ve had a lot of fun with it. However, it did not make it to the top of our list and after some time, it has been gathering dust. No earlier than after a few years, I was lured into the design toy by Anička Marešová – the Whoop·de·doo vibrator.“

Which one is the best and why?

„The Whoop·de·doo vibrator impressed me because it is really something special, great in every detail, and get to perfection. I went to the launch event, desired it for some time and with some help of my boyfriend, I´ve finally invited it to my bedroom. I know that I do not need anything else.“

What´s your opinion on toys in general?

„In fact, I´m not so enthusiastic about toys. My first experience was rather an impulsive decision, the second one was a sure pick for the rest of my life. I do not need more toys for experiments. But it can change…“

One or two funny stories?

„Not so funny, rather sexy. Some toys seem to be very lumpy to me. Contrary, my „friend“ is embodied elegance. Every time I reach out for it to a drawer, it creates a luxurious atmosphere. My boyfriend and other friends – both male and female – who experienced it can confirm it.

When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„I was introduced by my former girlfriend, not my wife. But it was a very detailed introduction. Each visit of a sex shop led to several buys.“

What did you try?

„I´ve used dilatation sticks only a few times (but my former girlfriend had orgasms because of them :)). Also, the ordinary nipple clamps with a chain can bring nice refreshments. In the beginning, she liked to shop in a housewares shop and explore what can be used. What about a juicer? She brought tabasco sauce once, unfortunately, it was just for me. For herself, she bought a set of small rubber bands – it was much more interesting. Then the big electrical vibrator came – but she´s used it differently from what I was originally thinking. I think that I have some second-hand clothing in my cellar, with stuff for a role-play „medieval peasant and rape on a high seat. But compared to the rest of the box content, this looks quite innocent (LOL)!“

Which one is the best and why?

„At the moment, ropes and handcuffs, scarf… it´s the most flexible, easily usable and it can be used in many ways.“

What´s your opinion on toys in general?

„Who wants to play can´t be without them – these are toys for adults. And who doesn´t want to play – let him live without it. But I think that toys can add a dimension to adult games which are hard to reach without them.“

One or two funny stories?

„After some time, it was still harder to think where to store these things as you do not want to explain what it is to your kids or visits… We´ve bought a cabin size case with a lock which is now a permanent inhabitant of our bedroom as well as our companion during the trips. Sometimes, I think what I would be doing when one of my kids will want to take it for a trip…“

When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„In fact, I was not actively desiring an erotic toy, vibrators or dildos was rather repelling to me because of the shape which was trying to be a precise copy of a penis, or because of the strange plastic material. Toys of the minimalistic design like whoop-de-doo were first to really catch my interest. But we´ve finally decided to buy a glass toy. I think that he was interested in it and that´s why he gave it to me (LOL). I like its shape, it is pleasant to hold it in hand and its thin end can be used for exploring of an anal area pleasures. That´s what my husband was thinking about. He has also said to me that he liked its shape which is not really penis-like.“

What did you try?

„I like floggers, whips, and ropes. We´ve bought floggers because we like this toy, it´s nice to see and it´s nice to touch it. The red color, suede leather – it smells nice, it can caress you and if you want, it can hurt (but not much).

Which one is the best and why?

“For me, winners are always toys which are beautiful, made with love for pleasure and those made of natural materials. These are toys that awake fantasy of my partner and myself.“

What´s your opinion on toys in general?

„Positive, but I think that in sex, it is even more important to evolve the fantasy, perceptiveness communication, and a little bit of secret… Toys can be a good spice or pleasant companions for those who do not have a partner at the moment.“

One or two funny stories?

„The first usage… but it´s not that funny My husband gave me a bondage seance with the professional as a gift. I loved it more than I´ve expected. I let myself to be bonded and hanged freely, upside down. I´ve always thought about it but I couldn´t imagine that I will really experience something like it. We´ve taken a lot of ropes to our home and I was really excited… But these ropes are in the wardrobe since that moment as my husband is not a fan of this handiwork (it needs a lot of skill). So he reads me erotic literature instead. It´s the best „toy“ for me. And don´t forget to hide your toys, because it can be really hard to explain its purpose to your kids…!“

When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„I´ve met them when I get married. Why? As a good mountain climber, I´ve started with ropes :). However, my wife was complaining that these are too rough for her skin. Because of it, we changed ropes for ties. In fact, the first light of interest was kindled by our friend, who invited us to shibari show. We were both amazed.“

What did you try?

„We´ve opened Pandora´s box with those ropes. After that, we´ve tried whatever we found. Handcuffs, mouth gags, anal gems, nipple decorations, various dildos… I loved to buy this stuff, but I´ve never used or immediately refused some of these toys. Like silicon ring for the penis with stimulation of the clitoris. The ring twisted during its fixing and instead of pleasure, it was a feeling of sorrow.

Which one is the best and why?

„We do have a nice and big box full of toys, but for me, costumes are the most exciting. Whatever it is, just different from normal clothing or pajamas Garters, of course, but also laced lingerie, latex skirt… and most of all, it´s such a small red piece of fabric which covers only intimate parts by a hair’s breadth. I´ve bought it when we were watching Battlestar Galactica and I was looking for something, as much similar to those that No. 6 (my favorite character) was wearing. But we´ve ripped it apart (well, I have…) so now the ties lead the way.“

What´s your opinion on toys in general?

“Strongly positive. But with one remark – most often, they are so exciting that after a few moments, they are not needed”

One or two funny stories?

„I wanted to surprise my wife with a gift so I´ve ordered her nice gem with bluestone. Of course, I´ve ordered it with an address different from our home. But on the bank account statement, between shopping in Billa and bills for energy, there was „domestic payment analnisperky.cz (analgems.cz)“ I was thinking to which category I should put this payment – fun, relax or health and care for a body?“

When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„Small banana with a small penis hidden under its skin was my first. I´ve bought it in the first sex shop which was opened in Rakovnik. We´ve goaded altogether with girls and each of us bought something.“

What did you try?

„The banana was my favorite, but it was overheating too often. It came to me as a substitution as I was not looking for toys when I had a partner. I still have it, but I´m not using it very often as my tissue inside is healed after life´s hardships. Sometimes I play with such a small silicone dwarf (LOL).“

Which one is the best and why?

„Most of all, I like a crystal penis which I´ve chosen as my lingam (Shiva Lingam = stone of protection and support. It comes from India, from the area of Namado river which is a feeder of the Ganga river). When I have porn-tastes, I put the silicone one on the edge, pod most often I use the lingam. I like ropes, but you need partner for this and I don´t have a suitable one. So I try these only within my job. Most of all, I like the leather ones :).“

One or two funny stories?

„I live alone but I don´t need a lot of toys, these are just a substitution for me. More often, I work with the body itself. I´ve also visited a seminar about the input of a crystal egg and its purifying power grabbed my attention.“

a last but not least

When did you desire an erotic toy for the first time and why?

„My desires connected to the usage of erotic toys are really ancient. I´ve always been looking for some overlap in sexuality. I´ve also always liked new things. In my relationships, I´ve always wanted to liven our sexual life up to not been imprisoned in the stereotype of 3-minute missionary action.“

What did you try?

„The more proper question is – what you didn´t try. And I can´t think of anything. Of course, you need a suitable partner who also likes to try new things. It´s not always the case. But if you have the right person next to you, it can result in the most beautiful symphony full of love. In any case, my experiences start with the arsenal of various vibrators and dildos of all possible sizes, shapes, or colors and functions. Then it was fruit, vegetables, handcuffs, chains, whips, ropes, masks, latex, catsuits, rings, dilatators, pumps, strapons, gels, clips, clamps, harnesses, plastics, foils, rubber, muzzles, cock rings, magic wands (not the Harry´s one, in this case, it´s a long vibrating dildo A/N), pinwheel rollers (I use something similar to cut the pattern into a dough, it´s a toothed wheel with a handle A/N) and ends with a pretty big fucking machine which can arrange a nice threesome.“

I admit that I had to google for a few of Frank´s toys. Strapon for example, it´s a leather harness for a lady with a hole for the dildo.

Which one is the best and why?

„It´s always a toy that both want and are in a mood for it. It´s about fantasy and permanent diversification. Nevertheless, after many experiments, my winner is a cubistick. With it, my relationship sexuality has a spiritual overlap. Because of its shape, it can satisfy both partners at once. Another of my favorites is the fucking machine. It can do the great foreplay after which all holes are ready for the next penetration and games.“

What´s your opinion on toys in general?

„Absolutely essential and fundamental thing. Without toys, my sexual life would be sad and unfilled.“

One or two funny stories?

„For example, I wanted to punish my partner because of cheating on me. We went to a hardware store when she had to buy four massive chains for me to hang her up at the ceiling. The salesman laughed at asked us „You have this for a cow, right?“ I´ve looked at him, to her, and replied: „How do you know?“

One of my lovers, when she´s found a bubble wrap at my home… she loved to wrap up herself into it and during the sex, bubbles were cracking. It was very funny.“

Sexual toys make sex not only more pleasant and more interesting, but they help pairs to understand what exactly arousing them. You will want to try it more often. As is well known, sex is invaluable for your health. Orgasms release endorphins, flood the stress out and improve the blood circulation. Trying to name all positive effects of good sex is futile, there are many. Simply said, you will feelbetter. And that´s the point.

Menopause is not a big hit. Lowering the level of estrogen leads to vaginal dryness, tightness, atrophy and causes painful sex and lower sexual appetite. Vibrators can reduce these symptoms and help to the fight against them. They improve tonality and elasticity of vaginal walls and help to naturally lubricate this organ. Sexual toys are useful even after gynecological surgeries and after giving birth (after the full healing up, of course). Vaginal tissue is elastic, and it is not strained too much. More blood goes to the vagina and internal healing is faster.

3. They are good for men as well

Men can benefit from sex toys as well. Men, who use sex toys intended for men, suffers less with erectile dysfunction, orgasm impossibility, and low libido. The libido is needed to be trained too… More than that, it is likely that during their plays with themselves, men will notice any abnormality and will find medical aid in that case. Sex toys are recommended by experts mostly to men suffering from diabetes, heart and neurological diseases. Frequent erection supports blood circulation to the tissues and stimulates the nerves.

It is no coincidence that all experts highlight the importance of foreplay. Stimulation of female clitoris is the key to orgasm for most women and sex toys are these keys. Vibrators can be useful in case of a disease called vulvodynia. It is so far unexplained pain in the area of the vulva, female outer genital and inside the vagina. The doctors are helpless, trying whatever they can to help those women. Thanks to sex toys, women can explore their bodies and feel more relaxed. Usually, symptoms step aside. Another threat is a vaginism, during which vaginal muscles shrink against the effort for penetration. It is being treated with various dilative tools. However, a small vibrator withlubrication gel can be more useful. And it does not look so scary and uncompromising. There can be fun with dilative tools as well, but only if you do not have vaginism and somebody is not pushing you from the inside. Low-frequency vibrations can be sedative for the pelvis, higher frequencies are more stimulative. It´s not only about sticking something inside…

The popularity of toys for adults is still increasing. Social taboo which was connected to them for a long time is not the case today. Technologies are still better and better. It would be a pity not to invite them to your bed. Especially as they provably easing the pain and increase the pleasure.