Children of Trobriand Islands have quite a quick entry into their sexual life. At the age of seven or eight, they start with first erotic experiments and imitation of sexual behavior between adults. Four or five years later, they are looking for their first real sexual partners. Later, they are changing them quite often. Female sexuality is taken as equal to them of men. Women can be as assertive and dominant as men and this behavior is not only tolerated but supported.

There is nothing like a classic wedding. If a young woman stays in the house of her lover overnight and she does not leave until the dawn, her „mother-in-law“ will bring them the meal (sweet potatoes). From this moment, they are considered „married“ and for one year, they eat altogether. After one year, they eat separately once again. It is the common meal which is considered to be the confirmation of marriage.

Girl´s parents will bless the marriage at the moment she will accept the present for her lover. After that, she moves to his house, eats with him (not only sweet potatoes) and spends her time with him. The info about the pair spreads naturally. If a woman is not satisfied, she can go away after one year. Cheating can be a reason for the „divorce“ as well. Man can ask for forgiveness by bringing sweet potatoes and other gifts, but it is the girl who has the final decision.

19th century Finnish tradition – disappeared in 20th century unfortunately – was used to show involvement in a relationship. Those men who do not like to express their feelings with words were able to „go to action“. Young women were wearing the empty sheath for a knife called puukko, the typical Finnish knife with 15 cm blade. The knife was used for everything – hunting, fishing, cooking or gardening. It is well known that men are connected to their knives the same as they are connected to their penis.

This sympathetic ritual was a symbol of this bonding. Man bought or made the most beautiful puukko he could and tried to put it to the girl´s sheath. If she accepted the knife, it was the binding action and the promise of marriage, if she was not interested, she had to return the knife no matter how she liked the knife.

Nůž “puukko”

Austrians always liked apples. After all, the strudel was one of the symbols of Austria-Hungary. In 19th century, apples were promoted to the symbol of sensuality in the Austrian countryside.

Imagine that! The party of 19th century also contained music, dancing and horny men as well as horny women. Pure classics which remains the same. But there is a difference. Here, girls have apple slices in their armpits during the dancing. If she likes a boy, she will offer it to him, warm and sweaty. If the attraction is mutual, he bites the apple and it´s all done!

The Sambian tribe of New Guinea has one of the weirdest initiation rituals you can (or you can not) imagine. Young boys, seven to ten years, are separated from girls. During this time, they go through some crazy rituals starting with skin perforation, eating huge amount of sugar beet, beating their nose until it starts bleeding (blood is a symbol of „female force“ which needs to be flown away) and ending with drinking of semen of the strongest and most respectable chief of the tribe.

Their semen should give the boys masculinity and power. It is the only way how to turn a boy to man. And only a real man can start a family and reproduce. In other words, if young Sambians want to have sex, they must sacrifice something. Refusing to go through the ritual is punished by death.

OK, we are glad that we were not born as Sambian boy. But there are other places where people are „out of the box“, like Aghori people of India who have sex with dead bodies floating on the Ganga river. They want to find purity in the dirt and refuse the concept of ego and standard perception of the beauty. Sex have many shapes, the same as people.

Prostitute Line Mikkelsen of Hamburg described her own experience with latex for quora.com: „It´s a fantastic feeling, like a second skin. But at the same time, I feel like I´m strangely naked. It´ s very sexy. Shiny and tight look draws the attention of most men. I love the smell of latex, thanks to it, I´m horny much more. Every time I put the latex on, I feel that I´m preparing for sex. And I like sex in latex. I remember the reaction of the men when I enter the room in latex for the first time – in a corset with strings, long stockings, and boots with high heels. They watched me and I knew that they want to have sex with me. I felt so self-confident. And even that I did not have panties, I felt no embarrassment at all.“

Latex can be easily worn out, it is not only for BDSM clubs and fetishist salons. Of course, you can bet that you will be in the center of attention and you will have a lot of looks. You will radiate your self-confidence to all directions and miles away. The level of your attractiveness will dangerously raise.

You can also use talc powder (similar to baby powder). It works as a dry lubricant and lowers the friction between the skin and latex. It is also being used for storing the latex clothing because it prevents layers of it to stick all together. Another possibility is to use silicon oil – the only type of oil which won´t damage latex. Every other oil will do some damage to latex clothing. It works like classical lubricant and latex is nicely shiny with it. Another possibility is to use so-calledchlorination. It makes latex rougher and is not so sticky. But it still holds its silk feeling. Unfortunately, it will be worn out much earlier.

It´s not necessary to start right with Catwoman’s outfit. If a complete catsuit is too much for you, start with latex panties, top or gloves. Each of these elements can make a sexual act more exciting. Imagine how exciting it is when you start soft massage of your partner’s prostate with oiled latex gloves.

Also, you can take his penis and move it on the latex top or panties. You will see that this will so exciting and pleasant for him, that his lovedrops will soon flow down your outfit…

Choose only the clothing in which you can easily get into all important parts. Even if most of your body stay in the pleasant tightness, you must be able to use a zip or accessible hole to get inside…

Summary: Choose your outfit from which you can easily get out and accessible oi the important areas.

Be aware that there are many materials resembling latex on the market. It can happen that you will buy something completely different. There are rubber clothing, lycra material or so-called zentai catsuits.

Contrary to latex, rubber is rather for connoisseurs and i tis possible that it will not satisfy your expectations. It is harder to put it on, it is more solid and not so attractive if you won´t oil it by special liquid. Oscar movies using rubber suits may look good, but you need to understand that the extensive preparations were needed to achieve that look. In a shop, you can get something very, very different…

Lycra is another type of material. It is being used for catsuits covering the body completely, so-called zentai. It is elastic material that does not have parameters of latex. It is rather good for artistic performances or gang-bang carnival.

Despite the fact that they are uncomfortable and dangerous for health, most men do not consider them sexy. Strings, especially if they peep up from hipster trousers, carved in wherever you can imagine, is nothing great. Moreover, if they deform your body shape to a foam roller, not only that men will not be excited, but rather they hang themselves on those strings.

Tattoos in the lower part of the female back – usually in some form of tribal design – are outdated. There was a time when strippers, prostitutes and pornstars used this. However, it was a long time before this became popular also in the last one-horse town. And this time is over. Americans pejoratively call this tattoo „tramp stamp“. It means that its owner is sexually free and promiscuous. It is a generalization, but even according to studies, girls with this type of tattoo is infected with the sexually transmitted disease more often. And we all know what does it mean…

Men, even if they do not look that way, are not stupid. The easily recognize that you are half-fake. If you are whirling the air in the room with each blink of an eye and if they must think all the time how you can use a toilet paper with those nails, it won´t brink you any extra points. Moreover, the wrong application will often damage your own eyelash/hair/nails and you will end in tearing eyes (without lashes). Men like the natural look. Over.

Perfectly covering make-up, which you applied on your face with a shovel and cross-hatched it as a bonus, it nothing men will applaud to. They will show even lower applause when you will crumble the layer of make-up in the morning and show them your real face. Toning and shading are very popular today, but it can totally change the look of the face. If you want him to like real you, do not sent your shadow to the date, come yourself.

5. Duck face

If you want to make him laugh, purse your lips. With the duck lips, it will be the only emotion he will be able to show. The loss of dignity is not a fair price for an optically thinner face. The look of retarded duck will make you just one of the gaggle and make him sure that you are not self-confident at all. And it is not very sexy…

5. Leggings & Cameltoe

There are many fashion trends that lower the attractivity of a woman who uses them. This is one of the most important. Leggings can be worn by slim women only. But even they are not able to estimate its covering abilities. After that, they look as they forgot to take a skirt. It may sound interesting, but without a laugh, it can be watched just for a short moment. Moreover, if they pulled their stockings higher than their top part (or another lower part…?), it is suicidal combination.

7. Smoking

Time, when a woman with the cigarette in the dark bar looked sexy and seductive, is over. Even a lot of smokers agree that it is normal to not smoke. Kissing of two ashtrays can be tolerated. In the case of a non-smoker, he needs a very strong reason to do it… When chic actresses smoked in movies, the tobacco lobby was on its peak and the availability of information about health hazards was much lower than today. Today, there is no doubt that smoking is a weakness. But it won´t make you a fragile flower…

Brigitte Bardot by Terry O’Neill

8. Drinking like a marine

Do not try to synchronize with his tempo of lifting the pint or shots. Not only that your physical constitution will bring you a much stronger hangover, your self-control will disappear, you will be embarrassed tomorrow, maybe even the day after that, you will also destroy any good impression you have made during the first date, even faster than your mascara. Drunk women may be sexually more available, but who wants such an easily accessible good? Especially if it makes strange noises and talks vulgar?

Sudden attacks of maniacal cuteness can be deadly for many promising dates. Infantile behavior belongs to the playground. Men who are too old for monkey bars, cannot be forced to the bed or even the altar with lisping. It will not make you more tender being, playing on his deep burdened desire after his mother. His real desire will fall and freeze.

Of course, there are exceptions among men. Some of them take this kind of communication positively, but they are really rare. If you prefer sure bets, take your brain with you and be yourself.

Sexual toys make sex not only more pleasant and more interesting, but they help pairs to understand what exactly arousing them. You will want to try it more often. As is well known, sex is invaluable for your health. Orgasms release endorphins, flood the stress out and improve the blood circulation. Trying to name all positive effects of good sex is futile, there are many. Simply said, you will feelbetter. And that´s the point.

Menopause is not a big hit. Lowering the level of estrogen leads to vaginal dryness, tightness, atrophy and causes painful sex and lower sexual appetite. Vibrators can reduce these symptoms and help to the fight against them. They improve tonality and elasticity of vaginal walls and help to naturally lubricate this organ. Sexual toys are useful even after gynecological surgeries and after giving birth (after the full healing up, of course). Vaginal tissue is elastic, and it is not strained too much. More blood goes to the vagina and internal healing is faster.

3. They are good for men as well

Men can benefit from sex toys as well. Men, who use sex toys intended for men, suffers less with erectile dysfunction, orgasm impossibility, and low libido. The libido is needed to be trained too… More than that, it is likely that during their plays with themselves, men will notice any abnormality and will find medical aid in that case. Sex toys are recommended by experts mostly to men suffering from diabetes, heart and neurological diseases. Frequent erection supports blood circulation to the tissues and stimulates the nerves.

It is no coincidence that all experts highlight the importance of foreplay. Stimulation of female clitoris is the key to orgasm for most women and sex toys are these keys. Vibrators can be useful in case of a disease called vulvodynia. It is so far unexplained pain in the area of the vulva, female outer genital and inside the vagina. The doctors are helpless, trying whatever they can to help those women. Thanks to sex toys, women can explore their bodies and feel more relaxed. Usually, symptoms step aside. Another threat is a vaginism, during which vaginal muscles shrink against the effort for penetration. It is being treated with various dilative tools. However, a small vibrator withlubrication gel can be more useful. And it does not look so scary and uncompromising. There can be fun with dilative tools as well, but only if you do not have vaginism and somebody is not pushing you from the inside. Low-frequency vibrations can be sedative for the pelvis, higher frequencies are more stimulative. It´s not only about sticking something inside…

The popularity of toys for adults is still increasing. Social taboo which was connected to them for a long time is not the case today. Technologies are still better and better. It would be a pity not to invite them to your bed. Especially as they provably easing the pain and increase the pleasure.

In 1865, the Olympia caused a real turmoil in otherwise frivolous France. Victorine Meurent was standing (or rather laying) as a model of modern Venus to Monet. For her slight body, she was nicknamed La Crevette (The Shrimp). Manet´s favorite model was good in painting herself and she even exhibited her art in prestigious Parisian salons. The seductive La Crevette is known also for even more famous and scandalous painting called “The Luncheon on the Grass“.

Happy beauty, proud of her nakedness and sensuality, is one of Tizian´s greatest pieces. He took his inspiration in works of his renaissance predecessors, Michelangelo and Raffaelo. For a long time, it was a subject of many debates, to find out who is the beauty resting on the picture in such a seductive way. Tips were on Venice´s courtesans as well as duchesses. But according to art historians, the Venus of Urbino does not depict anyone specific.

3. Francisco Goya – The Nude Maja

(Museo del Prado, Madrid)

The word Maja depicted the girl of loose morals from lower classes of Spanish society and provoking by her provocative behavior and noticeable clothes. When Goya painted Maja, the tsunami of outrage was raised, especially among the catholic church. It even pushed him to the inquisition court. Church officials wanted him to cover her nudity. He refused and he painted identical painting on which the Maja is clothed. Naked Maja has, therefore, her twin – Clothed Maja.

Lascivious pose of Coubert´s Bacchante refers to both Greek mythology in which so-called maenads (or mads), delirious female companions of the god Dionysus (Bakcha) were organizing wild orgies and indulging ecstatic parties with centaurs, Pans, Satyrs or nymphs, and renaissance nude paintings, especially Correggio´s painting “Venus, Satyr and Amor”.

5. Luis Ricardo Falero, The Enchantress or Egyptian dancer

(private collection)

Spanish artist Luis Ricardo Falero, Duke of Labranzano, was specialized in mythological, oriental and fantasy motives. He was able to work the magic of naked bodies belonging to witches preparing for sabbath or Faust´s obscene dreams. His dreams were deeply pervaded by an interest in astronomy and female beauty, to which he attributed magical and a little bit dangerous effect.

Arabian writings on the painting mean „He who took drugs, the intoxication of death made this truth appear“. It is a paraphrase of one verse from the Quran. However, it is different: „And the intoxication of death will bring the truth; that is what you were trying to avoid “. Falero left the last words out, and added „drugs“. With this, he changed the meaning of the verse completely.

French painter, educator and theoretician Joseph Lefebvre painted beautiful women, both naked and clothed. Odalisque, who stimulated his fantasy and forced him to create, is sprawling in the sultan´s palace and resting. Odalisks were slavegirls serving to sultan´s wives. The term comes from the Turkish word „odalik“, which means chambermaid. If she was able to sing, dance and have sex, she could become a concubine. A lot of them worked in a harem and if they proved their abilities or gave birth to a son, they could even become one of the sultan´s wives.

The baroque equivalent of Playboy poster and the sexiest butt of western art – it is the famous painting of Rokeby Venus or The Toilet of Venus. It became famous also because of a brutal attack on the art. Venus with the dream body was cut in two, with the butcher´s knife. The attacker on Velazquez´s 17th-century masterpiece was Mary Richardson, the suffragette who damaged the famous painting in 1914. Richardson was Canadian by her origin and she was not jealous on Venus´ beauty. With her action, she wanted to draw attention to police treatment of suffragette movement´s chief, Emmeline Pankhurst. This lady declared that it is legitimate to attack the state property when needed to achieve the goals of the movement. Mary Richardson, nicknamed Butcher Mary, spent 6 months in jail because of her action.

The Bathers painting is not impressionist at first sight, but still, it retains fleeting moment when one of the bathing beauties playfully threatens the other to splash her with water. The almost sculptural portrayal of bodies and sparkling country reflects the tradition of French art of the 17th and 18th centuries.

Renoir worked on this painting for three years. Only after that time, he was satisfied with it. The preparatory work involved two fully-fledged paintings of models and many preparatory paintings for all figures. Instead of appreciation, he has got harsh criticism for the change of his style. Renoir was turned down and promised himself that he won´t dedicate such a time to any of his future works.

Paul Gauguin was almost obsessed with Eduard Manet´s Olympia (see above). He had a copy with him all the time. In all his works, he paraphrased Olympia many times. However, as an only clean portrayal of ideal version of female beauty, he considered his own Black Olympia, known also as Te Arij Vahine, King´s Wife or Woman with Mangos, which he painted in 1896, in a year when his syphilis fully erupted. All the others, with Manet´s Olympia at the cutting edge, were too obscene for him. He experienced a similar 180-degree u-turn with love to his own wife. First, he loved her, then hated her.

The position of the red color is equally bizarre. Gaugin used it on the same places where Jack the Ripper put organs of one of his victims – Mary Jane Kelly (under the head, on the sides, and to her legs).

Lady Godiva, wife of Leofric, Earl of Mercia, and due to a legend, she freed the city of Coventry from the fine which could ruin it. Her husband wanted it from the city officials, and it was his condition that Godiva will go through the city, naked, clothed only in her beautiful, long red hair. All thepeople of Coventry had to stay at their homes and were forbidden to look at her. Both sides kept their promises. Citizens of Coventry stayed behind the walls of their homes, spared Godiva the feeling of embarrassment and her husband lowered their taxes. Later, the Peeping Tom, who looked at her and turned blind, was added to the legend.

This legend calls for its artistic impression. John Collier handled it in a very suggestive way. Several riding sculptures were made as well. One of those is right in the center of Coventry. As the Prague citizens have their St. Wenceslas, people of Coventry have a naked bronze heroine.

Avocado is one of symbols of today´s time, it increases both your social status and natural passion for living. It also optimizes hormones production which adds to improvement of sexual functions for both sexes. High amount of folic acid helps to decompose proteins and offers immediate, yet long-term, supply of energy. „Good fats“ contained by avocado are benchmark of your health and sexual appetite. Aztecs attribute magical powers to it, probably due to its shape resembling testicles.

Same as blueberries, strawberries contain a lot of antioxidants which remove free radicals out of human body. Among other functions, strawberries clean veins which means that blood flows better through the body. It is valid especially for some specific veins, it can be said that what is good for the heart is good or your genitals as well.

3. Chocolate with high amount of cocoa

Chocolate and love must have common ancestors. Even small piece of chocolate dissolved in your mouth will reliably make your day. It contains fenylethylamin – endorphin, which provokes affectionate feelings. It also helps to optimize the level of dopamine, molecule that is behind our sinful behaviour and secret desires. Moreover, the chocolate can be used during the foreplay.

Similarity of oyster and female vulva is not as accidental as it seems. It´s not only about physical shape but also about the same feeling to the touch. Zinc, in combination with testosterone, is reliable guarantee for continuation of sexy activities. Testosterone adds the appetite for action not only to males but also to females. Zinc increases the amount of sperm cells and adds to the overall potency. For women, it helps to maintain their ovaries healthy.

If you are not a big fan of oysters, try to eat sea fish. Salmon and codfish keep healthy hearth (the overall body as well) and increase the level of dopamine thanks to high amount of omega-3 fatty acids. As a result, people can experience better libido and stronger orgasms.

5. Nuts

Almond were symbols of fertility since the ancient times. Cashew, almonds and hazel nuts contain high amount of zinc. Hazel nuts have high level of omega-3 fatty acids. Moreover, nuts contain amino acid called L-arginine, which increases the production of nitric acid in human body. This acid is responsible for production of sexual hormones, stronger erection and longer endurance. Nuts are good for human brain as well. That´s where an excitement usually starts.

Several studies indicate that watermelon can serve as natural alternative to Viagra. It is possible thanks to chemical compound called citrulline which increases the level of nitrous oxide and clear veins. In fact, it is the same functioning as medicals for treatment of erectile dysfunction have. Better blood circulation is good for women as well, it means more energy and more endorphins for more pleasure.

7. Figs

Zinc, calcium, iron, potassium – it sounds like periodic table of elements on the road (but just the top students in the class). These chemical elements – in combination with high level of fiber – not only that satisfy your hunger, they also keep you full but still active. With regular consumption, the amount and vitality of male´s sperm cells are increasing. Same as oysters, figs also resemble female genitals. Even the queen Cleopatra loved figs and the snake which stinged her was delivered to her in the basket of figs. Sexual symbolic?

Some of foods mentioned above have sexual symbolism in its shape, others don´t look like that but are able to prepare the body for the real orgasms! Bon appétit!

The feelings of embarrassment encouraged for centuries are some of the greatest obstacles which most of us must deal with while we try to embrace and grasp our sexuality. Our culture, which characterizes itself by virtue and embarrassment and in which the bloody murder on a TV screen is much better accepted than the scene of love, is not the best fertile ground for open acceptance of this vital power which dozes inside us but can burst into a beautiful flower. On the contrary, the feeling of shame is often fostered by family and society as a whole. Through this feeling of guilt, we unintentionally refuse our own sacred aspects and suppress those deep into the subconscious mind. They always say that sexual dreams and desires are „bad“…

Some people rather choose to deny their own sexuality, describing it as bare instinct, lower-level vibration and say that they try to get over it, suppress their own sexuality. But the completeness and harmony are not possible without it. Sexuality does not define the man, but it is his (or her) inherent part. If you deny it, you block energies of your body, holding your spirit incomplete, fragmented and unhappy.

Through the orgasm, we can see the infinity of ourselves, let us taste the expansion of our soul. Sometimes for the very first time in our lives. Despite the fact that it is just a quick excursion, it is really worth to enjoy it on your way to your heart. Because orgasm is neither the beginning nor the end.

Sex is one of the very powerful tools of transcendental development. Sex with a spiritual overlap is, in fact, the fastest and easiest way to touch the mystical experience. Any kind of ecstatic experience, the sex included, is the perfect starting point for the cultivation of one´s spiritual abilities and their natural connection to our everyday life.

During the „right“ sex, we are vulnerable, open to intimacy. Not only to your partner but the universe. This experience is not deliberate, objectively understandable. „Divine“ state of mind can be felt very briefly even during the self-indulgent sex, in which there is no soul connection. We can be addicted to it and permanently look for new partners as the sex is always more interesting for the „first“ time. The real intensity, however, is connected to the deepness and it is needed to be worked on. The journey itself is the real goal.

There is a beautiful term in Sanskrit – Maithuna. It means something like „sexual connection“ in a ritual context. It belongs to basic tantric rituals and it is the synonym of so-called Nishpatti – maturity, and purification. Maithuna uses the deliberate sexual intensity as a ladder, thanks to which we can ascend higher, to even more intensive experiences.

Sexual desire takes its power from our body and emotions, itself it is not strong enough to raise us to another level of deliberate being. It´s the tantric sex, which gives us the chance to experience the real connection of bodies and souls (at certain conditions, it can be embodied). We can define this kind of sex as an infinite and pure blessedness, harmony, unification of identities and complete loss of the ego – especially during the climax.

Live in celibacy as long as possible. By this, you will maximize your sexual energy and better learn how to give it a direction. Maybe, in the right time, you will even feel tingling in the lower part of your back – the kundalini energy, which helps to feel the Unity.

Create the settings in which you will feel relaxed and in which the energy can flow freely. Sensuality can be supported by candles, soft ethnical music, aphrodisiac aromas, etc.

Sit face to face, touch your partner softly. You will wake up his or her neural endings. Stroke him softly but do not allow your hands to go into erogenous areas like penis or nipples. Move your hands only in close proximity to these areas. Prolong this state of excitation as long as you want (and you can stand).

Sit into the lap of each other. The so-called Yab-Yum position brings more of the intimacy and you can better tune-up and harmonize with each other.

Maintain eye contact while making love. With it, you will better feel and sense the infinite beauty of your connection.

Fluid secreted during the squirting originates from coupled (so-called Skene´s) glands. These are named after Scottish gynecologist Alexander Skene, who first described them. Contrary to the general (and vague) idea of squirting, the fluid has nothing in common with urine. The duct of these glands can be found right between the clitoris and the entrance of the vagina. Glands itself are placed in the upper part of the vagina and can be compared to the male prostate. Inside the vagina, the Skene´s gland is very close to another magical place – a famous G-spot, Graffenberg point. It is its stimulation which turns your partner into the fountain of pleasure.

Size of Skene´s glands is individual thing, different for every woman. Its insufficient size can bet he most likely reason why a woman cannot reach the wet orgasm despite the fact that you are trying your best. The amount of ejaculate is an individual thing as well. Its composition is similar to sperm (without any sperm cells, of course) and you can find glucose, fructose, creatinine or prostatic phosphoric acids in it. The fluid is ousted from the female body by contractions of pelvic muscles during the orgasm.

Alexander Skene

This magical area is placed on the front side of the vagina. Small bulging can be found with your fingers and after the stimulation, it will swell up and show itself in all its glory. It can be stimulated by fingers, penis or special toys – especially by vibrators developed specifically for G-spot stimulation. Or – if you like Venus balls, these can do the job as well.

Longer you stimulate the G-spot, more of the fluid will accumulate in Skene´s glands. But as mentioned above, the amount is individual thing. It can happen that the fluid will pour into the urethra as an outfall of the tubes is close to it. In that case, nothing will squirt out, but a woman´s pleasure will still be the same. Usually, a woman feels the need to urinate after the act and her urine is white and turbid.

3. Stop control yourself!

In the moment when Skene´s glands are full; women have a feeling of full urinary bladder and are trying to control themselves. Stop it! Stop it and enjoy the moment with all its power and delight it brings.

This is WET orgasm and you should be prepared for it. But it´s enough to put a soft towel under yourself. Or you can choose a place for the finale which can be easily cleaned up (the table, leather sofa, etc.).

5. Oil yourself

Buy your squirting gel, you can order it via the internet. It is enough to put a small amount on the G-spot and start to stimulate. The feeling of pleasant heat will come early, the area will be engorged with blood and relax. You can continue with the massage and substitute fingers with the penis. If you do not have specialized squirting cream, use common lubrication gel.

Passionate foreplay and gradual warming up is a matter of course. The key is to lead your partner to the absolute openness and relaxation of your partner. Without this, you won´t probably get a single drop out of her. In the moment your partner is opened and aroused, put two fingers inside her (the middle finger and ring finger are the best choices as this combination is not as wearing, no spasm will come and you won´t be forced to stop the massage) and stimulate her G-spot.

Then move your wrist in short and fast periods, up and down. With this, your fingers will stimulate the partner´s G-spot inside your partner. The continuous movement of the wrist with no excessive changes in the speed of movement is important.

If you will be able to meet these few rules, your reward is close!

The squirting is not athletic performance. Do not try to win the prize in the shortest time like a sprinter. In this case, the sex will turn into the gynecological examination which your partner won´t enjoy very much and will hardly appreciate it. Take time and practice.

They liked – as seen on many pictures portrayal on classic vases – small penises with overhang prepuce. Another exciting artefac was muscular thighs – they even wrote poems about that. Thighs played the main role when it came for sexual plays. Sex between thighs was much more prefered than anal sex. Oral sex was for scum – slaves and prostitutes.

Although, Greeks liked to visit heteros, love relationship with girl was not ordinary. Living shack up was not cool back then. But the love of honourable men and young men between 12-17 years old bloomed. The terms of homosexuality and heterosexuality were not known. Society accepted relationships between adult man called erates and young man called eromenos. Love more likely surged up between these two than between a man and a woman.

Since the age of Aristoteles, pedestry started to loose influential supporters. Cynics, stoics, epikurists and others got little by little seemed even disgusting. But some of them stayed loyal. For example Sofokles didn’t abandon his pederasty tendencies until he died. Greeks despised and laught at gays as are known today – with no pedophile tendencies).

Pederastic motive on vase

Ancient Greece came up with the term „lesbian love“. The origin comes to poetess Sappho which managed boarding school for young women on an island Lesbos, which was equivalent for Platons’ academy where all students kept above-standard relationships. Sappho felt in love with one of them too. According to disproved legend, she jumped into sea waves from Leukad rock, because of unlucky love for handsome Faon. Sappho wasn’t decided lesbian, which proves her marriage for a rich merdant Kekilas, with who she had a daughter. Greeks called lesbians Tribades (from Greek tribein – rub).

Greeks were afraid of women as such. In Greeks eyes they were suspicios, mentaly backward human beings because of their unpredictability. They thought it’s better to have them under their control. As said in Juan Eslava Galans’ book Love and sex in ancient Greece, a woman can’t control herself through the fault of her weak nature, which explain presumed woman’s weakness for food, wine and sex.

Édouard-Henri Avril | Sappho on Lesbos island

Just like tyger turns into a murderer after tasting human meat, so a woman necessarily turns into a slave of her inconstant uterus after tasting a man. The writer speculate it’s men’s jealousy of women for their bigger amount of ograsms and not worrying about penise size and erection stability.

Spartans – the bravest were the most affraid. They didn’t have much experince with women, they spent most of the time with their companions on training and fighting. Most od them would rather face the worst enemy than a vagina. On wedding night they shaved their women’s head and dressed them up in men’s clothes, in order to not have a trauma. Dressed up like this, women waited for their new husband to attack and drag them off to bed. After marital duties, married couple run away and some of them came back after couple months or years.

Achilles a Patroclus

Anyway, every period in time has its specifics – in sex included. Would you like to live in ancient Greece?